Sunday, November 20, 2011

Beijing #2


Yesterday, we took about a 15 minute walk from our hotel to The Temple of Heaven, which is an old alter from the 1400s Ming Dynasty emperors. In modern times, the Chinese have built a beautiful park surrounding it which is a common place for locals to hang out. When we first walked in there many different groups of people doing some activities. We saw people with hacki sacks, sword lessons, dancing, and doing various games. There were also many people who were writing with water and long sponge tipped brushes on the ground.(Angela had told us about them and said they were writing prayers.)

One of the neat things was seeing a very large group of people exercising, like line dancing. Others would walk up and join in, while others stayed for what seemed like hours. Chinese are very into exercise. On the walk there we saw one of the "parks" that just sits on the side of the road for anyone to jump on and do the equipment. They were things we didn't recognize but they did have an elliptical. I even got on one the leg swinging ones, it was quite fun and really stretched my legs and hips good.  These people are in shape! You don't see many overweight Chinese at all.

On the way to the Temple of Heaven we got to see life on a typical Sunday for Chinese in the area. It seemed to be market day where many people brought their vehicle (whether horse drawn cart or automobile or bicycle) to sell their goods out of.

We also saw many repair people that sit on the street helping others. yesterday we even saw a lady with an old style sewing machine fixing clothing right on the side walk. We saw many bicycle repair people, fixing old rickety bikes that no one in America would touch, but for these people it was the only they have transportation. 

Than at 2:30 p.m. Angela drove us to the airport for our flight to Wuhan. (Asher's Provence) We are in Wuhan right now!!  And this morning, in just a few short hours, WE GET TO MEET OUR SON!!!!!  We have waited for this day, for what seemed like forever, and now IT"S FINALLY HERE!!!  We hare going to go to the adoption center at about 10:00 a.m. China time!



People exercising in the square




Saturday, November 19, 2011

Beijing!

Today, instead of paying an expensive tour guide we decided we could attempt to conquer some of Beijing on our own. =)
So we had heard about some Hutong Rickshaw tour that were pretty neat so we decided to ask the concierge (he speaks some English) to get us a taxi and have the driver drop us off to the location we wanted and we would pay the rickshaw drivers (who claim to speak English) to take us around the Hutong neighborhood and lake (it would cost us about $60 just for that tour. A Rickshaw is sort like of a carriage pulled by a bicycle.
So, the taxi who spoke no English at all (we were at his mercy) took us on a 45 min drive (we got to see Tiananmen square along the way) and dropped us off at what appeared to be a Hutong neighborhood (old traditional neighborhoods with brick/dirt type streets and usually no cars allowed) .
So he points down the street and tells us to go down there with his hand motions. We pay him the fee and start walking down the street. Our very sweet Korean guide whom we had yesterday (Angela) told us when we got out of taxi there should be Rickshaws waiting for customers and we should only take the ones in uniform who have been licensed to drive them and really knew what they were doing. She said sometimes there are others who say cheaper price but don't speak English and don't take you on very good tour and they are not licensed.

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After walking 10 min (down what appeared to be an alley of only Chinese people and many shops) we were thinking we might be in the wrong place. We do finally see only one Rickshaw and he tried to stop us, but we could tell it was the type Angela warned us about, so we kept walking.

We finished the street of vendors (maybe 20 minutes) Then we found a potty (not a squatty this time, thankfully) After, we were not sure what to do. There was no lake and no other Rickshaws waiting for customers. We were told there would be lots!

Jay remembered he saw some police and a sign for station and thought maybe they could help. We walked another 5 min down that way. We enter the station and find one of the officers could speak broken English. I tried to explain with motions and words I thought she might understand, and she guessed that we wanted to rent bicycles at the rental place we passed coming in. Umm, I don't think so, have you seen the bicycles drive in Beijing, a City of 19 million people? Scary...!

So we said thank you, and left. Beginning to feel like we were in a fish bowl with all the stares we were receiving. But really, the people of Beijing mostly seem very respectful and we never felt threatened, in the least.

As we were about to turn back down the street we began, I noticed a sign for an ice cream shop that had a sign written in very good English writing (with Chalk, so had to be done recently). I thought, we should ask them if they spoke English. The worker didn't but pointed us to 2 gals that were sitting at a table chatting. One of them was Chinese and spoke pretty good English and the other was Australian who spoke great English and Chinese. They communicated back and forth for about 5 min and the worker young man went and got us the original Rickshaw we saw when we entered that neighborhood. We had to laugh, it was a nice older gentlemen who was going to only charge us 30 yuan (about $5) to drive us the location we needed to be (he new where it was) and it was a 15 minute bike ride. Poor man, I don't think he knew what he was getting himself into as had to drive all of 3 of us good size Americans against the wind to this street, where Yes, indeed was a tour guide Rickshaw place...
We gave him a big tip for his hard work." Thank you Sir. "

We walked across the main street (scary in itself, remember traffic and while they do oblige to pedestrians some, not totally) and then we walked and within a few minute another Rickshaw was offering us a tour. It was indeed the one we were looking for. He was a kind, again older man. He got his work out, driving us for 45 minutes around this lake and through some older streets and shopping centers, some as old as almost 500 years. he pointed out what he said was his house too. He did speak English, but oh so hard to understand it.. We often laughed if we didn't get it.

We got to see quite a few little things, including go into a traditional Hutong home, which still has a family living in it. That was cool to see.

When we were done he dropped us off a shopping street. Lenea liked the Rickshaw and she was a big trooper while I spent a couple hours bargaining and shopping.

Thankfully I brought some snacks and we ended up finding a McDonald and even saw  McDonald delivery boy! He drove a bike and had a Box like Backpack thing he wore on his back with the food in it. He was off before I could get a photo, too bad.
We thought we would try some french fries. Before doing so we needed the toilet. There was a line and only one filthy squatty potty in it, with sticky urine all over the floor. What a stinky humerus sight to hold Lenea over this potty. I was not  a happy camper, and Lenea did great!

After leaving there, we needed to flag down a taxi, we were pretty adventured out. It was much more trafffic in the city streets by now and we had a hard time fiding one. It took us about 30 minutes to find one vacant. we saw some get out and we ran.
whew we got in. After all was done he charged us about 3 dollars less for the drive,since he took a shorter way.

we came back to hotel and I paid for a Traditional massage. The girl came up to our room.  Much different than I am used to to in states, but it felt good, but she didn't speak English besides, "okay, and "money". So she did not ask me if I had any sore spots, she barely touched my still aching neck. It is better than before, but trying to keep up on it before we get Asher in 2 days!

Tomorrow we are going to attempt to walk to the Temple of Heaven, which we are told is a 10 min walk from hotel. Find a place to eat lunch and maybe do a little shopping and then Angela will take us to airport about 2:30!!

We will get to experience Chines flying and planes and travel to Asher's city!!! So excited!!!




Friday, November 18, 2011

We made it!!!

 After about 24 hours of traveling, we made it to Beijing China at about 4:30 a.m. Colorado time. (7:00 p.m. Beijing time)  We were so exhausted!!!  Lenea only slept about five hours on the plane, and Jay and I only slept about two.

After a much needed good nights rest, we heeded to the Great Wall of China with our to tour guide
Angela and a few other family's.   The Great Wall was simply amazing!!






Ridding the toboggan down the Wall



The scenery here is beautiful

Friday, November 11, 2011

China Itineray

Here are our plans for China. We leave in just 5 days!!!






Wednesday, November 16th:
United Flight 8:09 AM to San Francisco-short layover and land in Beijing, China 4:45 PM on November 17th




Thursday, November 17th:
check into Holiday Inn Temple of Heaven hotel in Bejing


Friday, November 18th:
Tour with a couple of other families we met on internet, going to The Great Wall- plans to ride a chair lift up the mountain and ride a toboggan down! (Yippee!) Peking Duck lunch and shopping in the afternoon with our tour guide, Angela.


Saturday, November 19th: Try to tour a little on our own- Temple of Heaven, Summer Palace and Tiananmen Square. We plan to take the subway, as we here it is easy to navigate, although very crowded. We think Jay's height will benefit us in this department.


Sunday, November 20th: A little more shopping if possible on our own and in the evening take a flight to Wuhan, Asher's province.
Wuhan hotel is called White Rose.


Monday, November 21st: Gotcha Day for Asher! I can't wait for this day. plan to shop for some of his needs- formula, shoes, bottles, diapers, etc. whatever we don't have that he needs once we meet him.


Tuesday, November 22nd: Apply for adoption registration/Notary. Then free, probably will rest, I imagine.


Wednesday, November 23rd: Apply for Chinese Passport and tour the city of Wuhan.


Thursday, November 24th: Jay and Lenea fly back to Beijing and home- to arrive about 10 PM our time at home. I will do some shopping if possible and rest some more. Happy Thanksgiving.


Friday, November 25th: Pick up Asher's passport and in the later day fly to Guangzhou, to stay at Victory Hotel.


Saturday, November 26th: Medical Exam/photo shop around Shamian Island- lunch at a park with other adoptive families I met on the internet.


Sunday, November 27th: Free day, hoping for shopping- may check out the church on the island.


Monday, November 28th: 8:30 AM Consulate Appointment (this was the big day we had to wait for to plan our travel around once we got TA).


Tuesday, November 29th: Get Visa for Asher to come to US!! 
Meet friend at her hotel as I will be taking the train along with them and staying in Hong Kong at same hotel with them. We take the train that afternoon, (hopefully not evening), then taxi to  the Empire Hotel Causeway Bay, Hong Kong.

Wednesday, November 30th: Take taxi to airport and leave on United at 12:30 PM, headed back to San Francisco, 3 hour layover then head home!!!


Prayers are so appreciated. That Asher's heart will be opened to our love and we would not get sick while traveling. That we will be safe as well. And for our children who are staying home.
This will likely be my last post until we get home. Makenna might be able to put up some photos for me from home, not sure how those internet details will work out.

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Part 1: We have an update.. and Part 2: Faith Like Children

Update:

So after 2 weeks of not hearing anything back from our agency, regarding the questions we asked about Asher, I asked if they could check again for us.
They got back to us 2 days later with the answers...The blue are my questions and red is their answers.

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1. Please give Height and Weight and Foot Size.
Height: 84 cm; Weight: 10.5 kg; foot 14 cm 
 
This translates to 33", 23 lbs and size 7 toddler shoe. Which means he will wear about a size 24 months, mainly because of his height. He really will be a thin from the sounds of it. I have had babies that were 23 lbs at 6 months! So this should be interesting. Once again, I am bringing overalls and one piece warm suits for him in China.
 
2.What name does he like to be called or what does the foster family call him?
He likes other people called him "Quan Quan".  His foster family calls him "Quan Quan".
 
I have an idea on how we will say this, but I plan to ask the guide what their pronunciation is for their dialect.
 
3. What comforts him when he is upset?
When he is upset, you can just give him new toys, take him out for a walk, or go shopping, it will calm him down.
 
 This sounds simple enough.
 
4. Is he toilet trained?
The foster family trained him to sit on the portable potty, but he would just sit and no result.  He likes to squat down and potty.
 
I am thinking this means does the position,but goes in the diaper or maybe he likes the squatty potty? Anyway, we will be bringing diapers.
 
5. What does he dislike?
He does not like furry toys.
 
And we bought and sent him a panda bear? Oh well, maybe he will change his mind. 
 
6. What does he enjoy?
He likes new toys.
 
7. How often and long does he sleep?

He sleeps twice.  Nap from 1:00 pm to 3 pm.  Sleep at 9:30 pm to 7:00 am.
 
He will hopefully learn to go bed a lot earlier here, we put our kids down at 8 or earlier at that age. But I am sure all sleep will be a big adjustment. Since he will be sleeping with us, I know this will be different anyway.
 
8. Does anything particularly scare him?
He is afraid of thunder or fire cracker etc. loud noise things.
 
This sounds typical..however could be sensory issues, as well as the not liking furry toys.
 
9. Does he live with other children? What are their ages and gender?
He lives with one other child.  She is a 1 year old girl.
 
10. Which family member is he closest to?
 He is close to his foster father.
 
 
Faith Like Children
 
On that same day my kids all day had been telling me they knew that God was going to send TA that day. They stated and were adamant that they were praising Him for sending TA, as they checked the email through out the whole day. I don't think 15 minutes went by that one of us did not check the screen. I am a realist at heart and while I knew that God would be sending it soon, I just haven't been that forthright in my prayers like my children were. I would say the same things, but then an hour later take it back into my hands.  Really, children have such big faith. It amazes me and inspires me to see and learn from them.
Anyway, 2 o'clock came and went which was 15 minutes later than when we heard about our LOA. I went to put Lenea down for her nap and about 20 minutes into our routine I have 4 children coming to the door, barging into the room, and quietly whispering, with much excitement "IT'S HERE! WE GOT TA". My heart dropped... Really?? I could not believe it. God really did bring it on the day my children ALL declared we WOULD be eating Chinese food for dinner. (We promised to buy Chinese food for a treat when it came, since we don't get it too much due to cost.)

As soon as I was finished with Lenea, I rushed to the computer to see that- Yes, INDEED we had it. No other news but that they would be in touch with us soon. Wow...what a wonderful feeling. The last step we have been waiting for, the hardest step really, is done. 

The next morning the agency sent an email telling us we had a Consulate Appointment for November 28th. Do you know what that meant? It meant that we got to travel on November 16th, which was the date I was figuring in my head and praying for the last 3 weeks! God is so amazing.


I proceeded to spend the next several hours that day searching for the best flight deals. It is a puzzle since while Jay, Lenea and I are all traveling the first portion of the trip, the end looks different. We will be flying from different airports and on different dates. But we found one from Todd Gallineck, a recommended travel agent in the adoption community. So now tickets are purchased. Now I am looking at hotels for the outskirts part of the trip and a guide to help us tour a little bit of Beijing. And we need to purchase some In-China flight tickets from Beijing to Wuhan (Asher's province).

I will update soon with our itinerary. 


Friday, October 21, 2011

The TA waiting...and waiting...and waiting..

Our Article 5 was supposed to be picked up last Thursday, October 13th. Now, we sit and wait (not so patiently) for our very last step before we get to buy some plane tickets to China. 

This process, once we decided on China and picked our agency, was a little over 9 months ago. We were matched within a week of signing our contract with our agency. It feels like I am way over-due with a pregnancy (not unusual for me!).

We have daily prayed for our little boy Asher, and his care-givers. We have watched (in a few photos) him grow from a baby into a little boy face. I imagine he is still "baby" in many ways, but it is hard to know that we missed all that part of his life.

 I was telling my children today that I believe these last 3 steps (I800, Art 5 and now TA) have been the hardest for me. I think it is because we are so close, but still don't have a definite date as to when we get to meet him and bring him home.

I felt a tinge of envy when I saw on a China forum I read, that several people with the same LOA date and even a few with an LOA 4 days later than us, are already 2 weeks ahead of us and making plans to leave in a week! I pouted a few days thinking, "That could be us!"

For reasons, unknown to us, God has allowed our adoption to be a different time frame. I am okay with it today. But I have to admit I am checking my emails 10x more than normal, hoping for a subject line of "TA!!!". I know it will eventually come. I know God has already walked this path for our family and brought us to this little boy. I was thinking, "He may be holding back a little making sure we really are ready to do this." The longer we wait, the more our hearts do attach to little Asher.

I promise to post as soon as we hear and as soon as we have travel plans. IF we get TA next Monday, which seems to be a big TA day, we could be flying out 2 weeks after that, or maybe later. Only God knows. I rest today knowing, our lives are in His hands. Because I also know I would surely mess it up!
 





Monday, October 10, 2011

New photos!!!!!!!!!!!!!




Woke up today with these adorable photos in our email. Remember the care package we sent with the bear and photo book? See him with them? I am so excited, my heart melts when I see him looking at our pictures.

We love you Asher, we are coming very soon.
We also asked some new questions which we have been told the orphanage is still working on. Hope to share some new information about him soon.

(We still don't know our travel date, hoping to hear in the next few weeks).